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只要心中有信仰,有良好的愿望,只要思想和灵魂追求和平,我们就一定能够在有生之年让世界变得更加美好。
爱的过程
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Theexperienceofloveisae.Whenthisispresent,youarehappy,alive,andfree.Youfeelgoodaboutyourselfandgoodaboutlife.Asytheexperienceofloveintoyourlife,lifeworkseffortlessly1ahingshappen.
&eofloveisfearahisispresent,youlosedowninside.Youloseyourcreativityandyourabilitytoseeclearly.Yougettunnelvisionandyouiinawaythatalmostalwaysmakesyoursituationworse.
&heryouliveinastateofloveorastateofupsetdepends,notonyources,butonhowyourelatetoyources.Agoodwaytoseethisistolookatupsets.
&obecausedbyensbutthey'resarecausedbyyaingehisinyourlife,seletupset,enifsomehowyoueaceeherewouldbe.
Therewouldbebecauseupsetsaren'tcausedbyesarecausedbyfightiingeyoutakeawaythefightiidisappears.
Tolivetheexperienceoflove,aealifethatworks,youopthefightiing.Youdhaprocesscalledlettinggo.
&inggoistheiiohefearahemomegseemstoge.Withthefearagone,youseeyoursituationverydifferently.Youbeecreativeaions2thatyoueverhaveseenbefore.
&go,youheoppositeoffightiigoofyourdemaionsforhowlifeshouldbeahthewaylifeis.
Findwhaty.Thefullpermissiohere,Ifyouhaveafearoflosiionship,bewilli.Ifythewaysomeohepersonfullpermissio>
Bewillingf.Setyourselffreeiakewhateverayouohaveyourlifebegreat.
Keepinmiinggoisastateofmindandhasnothingtodowithyouras.Lettinggoistheprocessthatremovesthefearasoyouseewhatayouake.
I,youbewillingtolosesomeoinyouras,dyouakesurethepersonfeelssolovedthatheorshewouldoleave.
Tomakelettinggoalittleeasier,thereareseveralstepsyoutake.Thefirstistrusting.Trustthathappens,youwillbeokay.Whenyouknowthatyouwillbeokay,lettinggobeesrelativelyeasy.
Trustingisalsotellih.Youreallywillbeokayhappens.Lifeiswhe.Sandtrust.Trustthathappens,youwillbeokay.
Thesedstepintheprocessoflettinggoistobewillingtofeelyourhurt.Bewillihehurtandthefeeliokaythatyourcesreactivate.Bewillihehurtofbei"goodenough".
Theavoidahishurtiswhatmakesyouresist.Onceytofeelthishurt,thedisappears.Youletgo.
Forexample,RoberthadafearoflosinghiswifeJan.Tomakesureshedidn'tleave,hehungontoher.Hishangingonthenpushedherfurtherandfurtheraway.RobertwasafraidoflosingJanbecauseifshelefthim,thiswouldreactivate4allhishurtoffeelingn.Toavoidthishurt.Hehungon.
Oncehewaswillingtofeelhishurt,thelossofJaobeatreat.Henoloohangonandbecamewillioleave.Themomentthishappenedhegedthewayherelatedtoher.Insteadofneediedtreasurihesolovedaobeherself,shedidn'twanttoleave.
Thisisehemoreyouareabletoletgoandflowwithlife,themorelifetakescareofitself.Youmaynotalant,butyoualwaysbefreeinside.Yourestorebothyourpeaindaiveness.Youcreatealifethatworks.
爱的体验是一种心理状态。
沉浸在爱里,你会感到幸福快乐、生气勃勃、自由自在。
自我感觉良好,生活就会非常美好。
当你把这种爱的体验带进生活时,生活就会变得轻松自如,充满喜悦。
爱的反面是恐惧和不安。
处于这种状态时,你会深深地陷入绝望,失去创造力和洞察事物的能力;你的视野会变得狭窄,处世方式也会受到影响,这些使你的处境变得更糟。
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